May 2009

Being a Father

Imagine this:

Taveling in Ethiopia

Made it safe back in Addis. We had the most fabulous trip around the
country! Here are a few previews of our week before some longer posts
when we get home.

1. Stopped by a hut near our son's birthplace and were greeted by the
family and a few interested field workers. The wife had just had a
baby 15 days prior.
2. Shared the road with many people, goats, and cows.
3. Learned not to pull the water flush string on the hole toilets
unless you are out of the stall. Glad I had waterproof boots :-)
4. Drank lots of delicious coffee.

Traveling This Weekend!

We received news that we are a go for traveling this weekend. We're packing and gathering all our things to head out on Saturday afternoon. We'll be gone for a week of traveling around Ethiopia and then spend Memorial Day - May 29th doing adoption stuff in Addis.

Baby Nursery

We have a baby corner dedicated in our apartment, and I think it's pretty cute. I found a great deal on a crib at a garage sale and painted a wood dresser I found by our dumpster. Tate is set with stuffed animals. We mailed him a baby giraffe, in his nursery are 3 teddy bears, one owl, and one highland cow with a rather aggressive moo.

Keep praying

After great news yesterday, we are sobered by finding out how few families passed court in the last two days from our agency. I only know of one other family out of 6 or so who have had court cases the last two days. I don't know why He saw fit to have us pass, but I am SO thankful!

Tie Dye and Hemp

I've had quite a lot of fun the last few weeks getting things ready for Tate to come home. My favorites have been the hemp diapers and tie-dye onsies, although I'm pretty proud of my diaper bag too. Mom and I made 20 diapers out of hemp/cotton fleece one weekend. Joseph even got in on the fun and sewed together the soakers. Here is the end result.

Introducing Joseph Tate Bayly VII

"Praise the Lord! Oh give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; For His lovingkindness is everlasting. Who can speak of the mighty deeds of the Lord, or can show forth all His praise? How blessed are those who keep justice, who practice righteousness at all times." ~Psalm 106

Week of Prayer - Day 7

Today keep Joseph and me in your prayers. Sometime in the next 24 hours our court case is scheduled to be held. Hopefully we will hear tomorrow, Monday, if we passed or not and if Tate is legally our son. We'll let you all know as soon as we know. Pray that we respond to whatever news we receive with faith and hope and that we would get some sleep tonight as we eagerly wait to find out the outcome.

Check back tomorrow for news!

Week of Prayer - Day 6

Today please pray for our son, Tate. Pray that he would somehow be prepared for the massive changes that are about to happen in his life. He has no idea what is coming and one day will just begin to live life with new people, then fly to a new home where he'll experience more new people, new smells, new sounds, new everything. Pray that he adjusts well and stays healthy though the transition.

Week of Prayer - Day 5

Today please pray for MOWA (Ethiopia's social services type organization). They are a very busy office and with the number of adoptions going through Ethiopia right now, they have a difficult time keeping up. There is one letter in particular that needs to be written by them for our court case. Many times this is written the day of the court date, so if anything goes wrong, it causes a delay. Pray that the letter would be written on time and correctly.

Week of Prayer - Day 4

Today is going to be a repeat request of Day 1, since the embassy in Ethiopia still does not have our updated fingerprint dates. Please pray that our paperwork would all end up in the right place, in the right hands, and done correctly by all the deadlines.

I'm spending today talking to the office of immigration in Indianapolis and the National Visa Center to have them re-send our information to the Embassy. Please pray that the people I talk to are helpful and that they actually do the work they say they will do.

Week of Prayer - Day 3

Please pray today that all of the external circumstances would work out for us to have a successful court date. There are about a million reasons that our court case could not be heard on Monday, starting with: the power might be out - for the day, or the court might be overbooked, or email or telephone communications be down, or the judge might be sick. We've heard lots of stories about court cases not happening on the day they are scheduled for reasons that we all take for granted in the U.S.

Week of Prayer - Day 2

Today please pray for our son's birthmother and relatives. Whether they need to appear at court or not, pray that God would give them joy and hope and peace. If they are summoned to appear at court, pray that our agency is able to track them down and bring them up to the capital. Pray that that his birthmother would be assured that she made the right decision to give her baby boy up for adoption.

We are getting quite close and there is only one travel group before it is (Lord willing) our turn!

Week of Prayer - Day 1

We officially have one week until our court date! As it approaches we would love it if you joined us in prayer. About 70% of adoptions make it though their first court date, which means 30% do not. We are well aware of how out of our hands everything is and want to bring it all before God, who says, "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7